15 June 2017

Movies and Bookshops

When you dream of opening a book shop some day, all the movies and books set at or around book shops become your fantasies. They open the doors of your imagination and you are transported into the bookshop watching the characters like a fellow book lover. These are some of my favourite movies mostly for the dreamy book shop in them! 

You've Got Mail
The cute quirky book shop with story tellings and sale of books. It had a pleasurable place like a child crèche while parents shopped around. They could color and play while the parents did everything. The bookshop was even more special seeped in nostalgia with the memories of the mother of the protagonist and her vision to make it a place full of love and dreams. It competes with the large scale commercial enterprise and fails financially but it stays in the hearts of those who believe reading is an art and it can't have a price on it. The bookshop around the corner stays with you long after you leave the cinema hall. 

Before Sunset
The part 2 of Before sunrise, this books shows the protagonist turning into an author. His book reading is hosted in a book shop in Paris, the place where his French love from his younger days lives. And you won't believe that it is 'Shakespeare and company' bookshop, the Mecca of book lovers in Paris and around the world. I believe book shops are beautiful and romantic and people often fall in love there with fellow book lovers. It's just the romantic aura, which makes you fall in love! 

This romantic movie of a simple British book shop owner in London and the famous Hollywood starlet. The fantasy love story of every simple boy to fall in love with the unattainable celebrity. His bookshop is shown a few times with its beautiful British setting. probably it's the simplicity of his life which attracts the fast paced complicated life of a star and you have the opposites getting attracted including over the love for books. 


14 June 2017

Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows

 Book: Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows
Author: Balli Kaur Jaswal 
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

The story is based in the heart of London at the hub of Indian Punjabi society - Southhall. These Punjabis left the country but the country never left them. They moved in 70s or 80s with the Khalistan movement but created a mini India there. While India moves ahead they are still stuck in the India of 70s. The same old traditions, boundaries, taboos and burdens. 

Erotica and widows - wasn't I only surprised to see this in the same sentence, it is the title of this book. This story makes a strong statement on feminism voicing the dreams and issues of the neglected class of women - The widows who have no life without their husbands. In olden days there was Sati and now it's anonymity and speechlessness. You have no say but to follow the rules laid by men in a patriarchal society. 

It's distressing that there are even dressing rules for a widow - a plain white suits,  no make up, covered heads and bent backs. As if the colour goes out if your life without your husband. What is the definition of white here - is it about a pure soul, a spotless character or a colourless life? In short it's all about a uniform like a prisoner for no crime of their own. All her life a women is trained to be a wife and when the husband dies she is made to live an empty life. This story takes a big leap and talks about the fantasies - and I must elaborate the sexual fantasies of these women. There are a lot of overrated things in this world - from fidelity to sex, but what is under rated is a women's sexuality. She is taught from the beginning that she is a factory to reproduce and sex is the process of it. She is not supposed to enjoy it or even know about it. For years she is kept under wraps like a pearl and then on her wedding night she is thrown in with a stranger like a goat in a lion's cage. God forbid she enjoys it, in that case she will be termed a whore. 

But what Bali does excellently well is she serves this strong statement in a chiclit fashion so it can easily reach out to all women. She doesn't preach, she tells a story or may I say multiple stories of various women and their lives. The literary classes turn into creative writing and the stories became a fad, reaching out to more and more women and starting a movement. A slap on the face of the so called guardians of  the society which refuse a women to express her sensuality but a man gets to become a proud fornicator. 

When I read such books I feel the times are changing and for good, but then I wonder how long will it take to reach the equal? How much more times to undo the wrongs? How much more time to get a woman her due? How much time men will need to change? How much time to reach a society which is fair? This book is just a small step, but a big leap for mankind! Read it for the titilating stories and the strong message. Hopefully a time shall come that there are no widows but just some single women looking for love once again! 

(Backup) Hope Factory - a book of hopes and dreams


Book: Hope factory
Author: Lavanya Sankaran
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️

This is the story of Hope and dreams - of a struggling middle class businessman and a poor maid trying to meet both ends and have a honorable life. There are multiple other intertwined characters who add shades of grey to their characters distracting or encouraging them to reach their goals. But those destined to fulfill their dreams pass all barriers and that's where you have the dogma of class barriers. 

Hope and Class - there is an inverse relationship between the hope and class of society.  Your social ad financial status determines your class and lesser it is the more hope you have. Hope to do better, hope to be higher. It does not mean in any way that upper class doesn't hope to be higher, it only means it's more hopeful for Lower classes.

Intelligence as they say is randomly distributed and sometimes beyond any class. The time has proved that it's only few and rare who have broken the class barriers and soared higher to reach somewhere. Especially in the Indian society full of politics, bureaucracy, caste system and societal taboos. 

Read Lavanya Shankaran for her very real and true account of today's India buzzing with dreams, energy and hope. After all there is only hope and hope that makes a life worth living! 

29 April 2017

Love in the times of Pokemon - Reader turns Author

Anurag is a self-published author and have recently published his debut book of poetry called: Love in the time of Pokemon: Poems about love, loneliness, and other funny things. 


He approached storywala and here is an excerpt from his reading journey, library, and his favourite genres and books. Honestly, I have not read his book, still introducing a fellow reader turned author. Read at your own will! 

Which was the first book you remember reading?  

The first book I read was Sigmund Freud’s  Interpretation of the dream during my engineering college days. I was fascinated and puzzled by dreams and wanted to understand more about the symbolism of (un)consciousness. I finished the book in 5 days and was quite amazed by its content. Though, I now like Carl Jung's theories more than Freud's.

Which is your favorite poet and why?

Charles Bukowski is the one. He deals with contemporary life. About streets, about loneliness, about ache, about boredom; which all comes from his personal experience of the harshness of life. But the tone of his books was never melodramatic and rather follow a certain rhythm of storytelling structure. In spite all such themes, his outlook towards life was never hopeless and he had the great ability to incorporate humor in poems which made his poem appear as a celebration of life in all its absurdities. 

Which is your favorite book and how did you get to read it?

There are many favorites according to the emotional state I have been into. Recently I’ve read short stories by relatively unknown Hindi write Rajkamal Choudhary which I found inside a very old library of Rajasthan. I was hooked on this book for many days because of Rajkamal’s masterful style of writing about the dark side of urban realities.The genius of Rajakamal has always been underappreciated in the Hindi literature history because of his indifference to become a part of the coterie of other dull elite Hindi writers and influencers. 

Tell us about your personal library at home? 

Most of the Paperbacks are from the time when I was in college because now I prefer ebooks. It consists of lot many of existentialist authors who were my favorite during teenage years: Albert Camus, Sartre, Herman Hesse, Nietzsche. Italian novelist Alberto Moravia's books are there as well whom I find intriguing. Also books by John Fante, Dostoevsky, Julio Cortázar, Manohar Shyam Joshi, among various others. 

How did you arrive at the idea of writing the book?

I am writing short stories and poems since 6-7 years.  After writing anything I used to mail my poems to 3-4 friends of mine. That was the tiny audience I had for my poems. Recently when I had sufficient numbers of poems and was confident enough about the merits of them I decided to convert into the book and publish. 

Finally, you say you are a poet, now create an original short poem for the readers! 

This one a small excerpt from a long poem titled' Love and Mosquitoes' from my book love in the time of Pokemon. 

Love and Mosquitoes 

whenever you are with me I feel like

I am high on coffee

or on some substance

which even kings crave for.

Is it the room purifier

or the smell of herbal mosquito repellent

applied on my leg

or the smell of perfume

applied on your body;

Reading Lolita in Tehran - a statement, a story, a reality not a book Review

Book: Reading Lolita in Tehran
Author: Azar Nafisi
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (5/5) a very rare rating for a book 

There are so many freedoms we take for granted, like reading a book called Loilta in a city called Tehran. 

Very rarely a book is written about books, the words of a reader. And very rarely a book which has Titilated generations, ends up becoming such a strong social statement. This is what Lolita in Tehran aims to be, a statement of an underground revolution of few burqa clad women, who by reading this book are revolting against the tenets of their society and country. 

The book title summarises the gist of the story. It is about reading Nobokov's famous Book Lolita in Tehran. A country seeped in conservative Islamic culture bans Lolita, a book depicting the erotic renderings of a paedophile. The same country where 9 year old girls are herded like cattle and married to old lusty men. An irony indeed, a scandalous  reality hidden behind the garb of being a bad influence on its women and men. Interestingly, most books with modern independent heroine protagonists are banned and considered un- Islamic. 

I don't consider myself an expert on religion or literature but a society which does not allow independent thinking is bound to be regressive. That is what is happening to Iran which is going back to the older ways rather than moving forward. The cultural, social and religious tyranny, restricts day to day living and thinking. Leaving no other options but the liberal citizens to runaway to other open minded countries. What would a simple citizen do - be patriotic and fight the tyrant or runaway to live a free life. Is there a way to reason with someone who refuses to listen. Following the age old traditions without questioning there relevance or logical reasoning at the first place. 

Along with the cultural eye opener, I fell in love with this book for the 8 rebellious women who imbibed the book love in its highest form. The main protagonist is the author, Azi Nafisi and the others are her select set of girl students who form a secret book club to read and share books which were banned from the university syllabus or prohibited to read. Each girl is special - Manna the poet, Mahshid is sensitive, Yassi the comedian obsessed with words, Azin the wild and outspoken, Mitra the calm with dimpled smile, Sanaz the independent yet traditional and Nassrin the Cheshire Cat. 

The secret book club and the intriguing book discussions makes this book a collectors dream. I have read many books, authors and they are all book lovers but nothing like the ones in this book. There love for books is not a hobby, it's a passion fueled by the will to live and think in a society which restricts it. 

The classics have been critically analysed and reviewed from multiple aspects of time, religion, society, gender, politics, marriage and love. Each nuance discussed carefully and beautifully like peeling of layers of onion delicately leading to the core of a shared experience. I found myself sitting in that book club hearing their conversations, feeling there emotions and watching their expressions. So many stories unfolded while discussing these books. Each character found its link to the story, interpreted in its own way. Ones freedom is another's rebellion, ones shyness is another's weakness, ones choice is another's selfishness, ones belief is another's chastity. 

When Professor Nafisi calls these women as my girls, believe me I felt they were my girls too. The same girls I have grown up with, fighting similar social orders and disorders, trying to be independent and live freely.  While not on the same scale, this is the struggle all girls have to fight and continue to fight. Because it's the women who can make this world simple and liveable while the men try to mark it with rules and boundaries. 

This book is for all the women and their journeys. Everything I felt and experienced while reading this book made me a more mature and grateful person for the small mercies.  A book that adds so much to you as a person is bound to stay with you forever. This one will stay as long as I read and whenever anyone asks me to suggest a powerful book to read, this will be my first recommendation. Dedicated to all those who are changing the world just be reading books! 

Further reading inspirations from book. Nafisi teaches western literature and these classics are a must read-  
- Vladimir Nobokov's 'Lolita' and 'Invitation to the beheading'. 
- Scheherazade (A Thousand and one nights) 
- Mike Gold (proletarian) and Maxim Gorky were intrusively subversive in their political aims: others like Fitzgerald's (Great Gatsby, The Nigger of the Narcissus) and Mark Twain, were in my opinion subversive, if less obviously so. 
- Muriel Spatk's The prime of Miss Jean Brodie 
- Adventures of huckleberry fin
- moby dick
- the scarlet letter
- Daisy Miller 
- The Dean's December 
- Jane Austen 
- Billy Budd
- Around the world in eight days 
- Hamlet
- Loitering with intent 
- Madame Bovary
- Anna Karenina 

Now some pearls of words from book, which will stay with me much after finishing the book. One can feel the love for books oozing in every word - 

Reality has become so intolerable, so bleak, that all I can paint now are the colors of my dreams. 

Readers were born free and ought to remain free. 

Poshlust, Nobokov explains is not only the obviously trashy but mainly the falsely important, the falsely beautiful, the falsely cleaver, the falsely attractive. 

There on the brink of the void, I could invent the violin or be devoured by the void. 

Lolita belongs to a category of victims who have no defense and are never given a chance to articulate their own story. 

Yassi's poem is called "How Small are the Things that I like." In it she describes her favourite objects - an orange backpack, a colourful coat, a bicycle just like her cousin's and the green gate of the university. A magical entrance into the forbidden world of all ordinary things she had been denied in life. 

Lolita belongs to a category of victims who have no defence and are never given a chance to articulate their own story. As such, she becomes a double victim: not only her life but also her life story is taken from her. 

Nobokov calls every great novel a fairy tale. First let me remind you that fairy takes abound with frightening witches who eat children and wicked stepmothers who poison their beautiful stepdaughters and weak fathers who leave their children behind in forests. But the magic comes from the power of good that force which tells us we need not give in to the limitations and restrictions imposed on us by Mcfate, as Nobokov calls it. 

Azin would often bite the corner of her lower lip and launch into tirades about love, sex and men - like a child throwing a big stone into the pool; not just to make a splash, but to wet the adults in the bargain. 

"Today is the day of mourning! Taleghani has gone to heaven today." That was the first time I experienced the desperate, orgiastic pleasure of this form of public mourning: it was the one place where people mingled and touched bodies and shared emotions without restraint or guilt. There was a wild, sexually flavoured frenzy in the air. Later, when I saw a slogan by Khomeini saying that the Islamic Republic survives through its mourning ceremonies, I could testify to its truth. 

That first day I asked my students why one should read fiction. I wrote on the board one of my favourite lines from the German thinker Theodor Adorno: "The highest form of morality is not to feel at home in one's own home." I explained that most great works of the imagination were meant to make you feel like a stranger in your own home. The best fiction always forced us to question what we took for granted. It questioned tradition and expectations when they seemed too immutable. I told my students I wanted them in their readings to consider in what ways these works unsettled them, made them a little uneasy, made them look around and consider the world, like Alice in wonderland, through different eyes. 

The novel was an American classic, in many ways the quintessential American novel. Some cite its subject matter, the American dream, to justify this distinction. We in ancient countries have our past- we obsess over the past. They, the Americans, have a dream: they feel nostalgia about the promise of the future. 

A novel is not an allegory. It is the sensual experience of another world. If you don't enter that world, hold your breath with the characters and become involved in their destiny, you won't r able to empathize, and empathy is at the heart of the novel. This is how you read a novel: you inhale the experience. So start breathing. 

James did not like his heroes and heroines to be infallible. In fact, they all make mistakes, harmful mostly to themselves. Their mistakes, like the tragic flaw in a classical tragedy, become essential to their development and maturity.

I had a theory that some gifts should be bought for their own sake, exactly because they were useless. 

We work in the dark - we do what we can - we give what we have. Our doubt is our passion, and our passion is our task. The rest is the madness of art. - Henry James 

It is a truth universally acknowledged that a Muslim man, regardless of his fortune, must be in want of a nine year old virgin wife. 

"Did you fall in love?" It was a joke among my friends and colleagues that I could never resist posing my obsessive question to married couples. 

It is not accidental that the most unsympathetic characters in Austen's novels are those who are incapable of genuine dialogue with others. They rant. They lecture. They scold. This incapacity for true dialogue implies an incapacity for tolerance, self reflection and empathy. 

Modern fiction brings out the evil on domestic lives, ordinary relations people like you and me. Evil in Austen, as in most great fiction, lies in the inability to see others, hence to empathise with them. What is frightening is that this blindness can exist in the best of us as well as the worst. We are all capable of becoming the blind censor, of imposing our visions and desires on others. 

I have come to believe that genuine democracy cannot exist without the freedom to imagine and the right to use imaginative works without any restrictions. 


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